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With several murder stories in the news from
Nicole Simpson to Laci Peterson and the unforgettable
John Bobbitt, many of my clients have asked me if they
are likely to have a marriage that could lead to murder.
There is no simple answer to this question.
After watching several news interviews of the victims in these situations.
They all expressed coming to a point of feeling afraid of their spouse
and no longer trusting them or their whereabouts.

In some cases where children are involved, they expressed
fear of leaving their children around them when they
were in a bad mood.

Many of these victims had problems moving on with
their own life because their spouse consistently
harassed them and would not let go.

In other cases, their spouse was cheating, and decided to
sabotage their own family as way of seeking revenge
on the cheating spouse.

Some tell tale signs that you are in a volatile relationship may include:
When arguments easily escalate to physical violence.
Being threatened with physical harm.
They threaten to harm themselves if you leave.
They refuse to disassociate with dangerous persons.
The display psychotic or irrational behavior, for example incoherent/obnoxious arguing , damaging personal
property, shaming you making you feel scared or intimidated by them. Reckless driving.
These are just a few of many warning signs that can indicate it is time to check out.

These patterns need to be recognized early. In many of these cases,
the spouses waited too long to leave and still entrusted their mate
with financial responsibilities or watching children.
When the turbulent partner is faced with being trapped in a relationship
or they have caught their partner in an act that would not merit their forgiveness
their volatile actions can reach a new plateau that can result in financial disaster,
serious physical harm and in many cases murder.

I have had several clients that I have warned pre-marriage to be careful.
In a channeling session it can be very obvious if a potential partner plans
to scheme, be unfaithful or may be dangerous.

In astrology, there are some “stereo -types” written about in books and articles
that may not necessarily be true. For example, some books suggest,
never being a Sagittarian male’s first wife. the first wife gets the bunt of his
growing up and abuse and the second wife receives the spoils of his
career success. This is not necessarily true and this can be said about many
men hitting their midlife crisis or completing their medical residency.

Another myth is that all Scorpio and Capricorn Males are abusive.
This is also not necessarily true. According to my personal research
of surveying clients over the past five years, the best way to predict
a volatile relationship is by looking at how your sign and your partners
get along together.

If you wish to research astrology on your own to determine if your relationship
would lead to an unpleasant future it is best to first know if our astrological
sign is compatible in each other’s 6th house. Many books look to the ascendant
and the social signs. I always look at the 6th house because it determines how two
people will co-habitate with each other long term. It gives the indication of who will
be the giver and who will be the taker in the relationship. It also determines if
there is the ability to work together to achieve compromise.

From an astrological perspective there are signs that mix like oil and water,
where long-term relationships can be turbulent.If you are looking for a thumbnail resource
of signs that may not get along in a long term relationship,here is a quick reference chart below:

This list is only for turbulent love interests and marriages.
Pisces can be turbulent with: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Leo,
Sagittarius, Aquarius and Pisces

Aquarius can be turbulent with: Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Scorpio,
Aquarius and Pisces

Capricorn can be turbulent with: Aries, Cancer, Leo, Libra,
Sagittarius, and Capricorn

Sagittarius can be turbulent with: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio,
Capricorn, and Pisces

Libra can be turbulent with: Aries, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio,
Capricorn, and Pisces

Virgo can be turbulent with: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius,
Aquarius, and Pisces

Leo can be turbulent with: Taurus, Gemini (only if not faithful),
Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces.

Cancer can be turbulent with: Aries, Gemini, Cancer, Scorpio (if
there is alcohol/ drug use and is not faithful), Sagittarius, Capricorn,
and Aquarius.

Gemini can be turbulent with: Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo,
Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Pisces

Taurus can be turbulent with: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Scorpio,
Taurus, Aquarius, and Pisces

Aries can be turbulent with: Pisces, Capricorn, Libra, Virgo,
Cancer, and Taurus.

There are 12 astrological signs and most of us are only compatible
with half of the zodiac. Some of us are compatible with less than half.
It is important to choose your soul mate carefully and
recognize the difference between infatuation and true love.

Joanna Ammons ? 2007

By: Joanna Ammons